DutchALF - Lifestyle & Sociale vaardigheden

What do you teach?
I teach a totally natural style of meeting women.
It consists of introducing yourself directly, using sexual tension to create attraction and being genuine and humble.
I also teach guys how to have successful long-term relationships with amazing women by being a positive challenge.

van zijn site: http://60yearsofchallenge.com/faq/

At one point she tries to break the tension during a long silence by pleading with me to “say
something”. She can’t deal with the tension. I win. She actually starts laughing to herself at certain
points in the interaction for no apparent reason. If you weren’t skilled with women you might think she
was laughing at you for trying to be seductive and go back to being social. But I know laughter is just
her way of dealing with the sexual tension. I know whenever women test you or bait you to break
rapport it’s only to try and break the tension. I ignore it.

It is my contention that a persons social skills aren’t good or bad. Rather they are fluid and based
solely on momentum.
Positive Social Momentum
Avoid nothing.
Anytime you want to do something social and you do it you build positive social momentum. You are
now (+1)
Be aware there is no neutral. Avoiding a social opportunity builds negative momentum. You are (-1)
Don’t avoid any opportunity to be social no matter how insignificant it may seem at the time.
For example, introducing yourself to the people around you.
• You see a cute girl and you want to say hello. Your brain says “she looks bitchy don’t do it”.
You approach anyway. No matter what happens you are now 1 for 1.
• There is a guy behind you. He looks cool and you want to introduce yourself. Your brain says
“are you fucking kidding that’s gay”. You start a conversation and he actually works in your
building. Cool dude. You are now 2 for 2.
See if you can ignore every negative social thought you have and go 10 for 10. By this point you won’t
want to break your streak. You are on your way to social god mode.
You can also practice building PSM as you go throughout your day. By making this a part of your
lifestyle when you go out at night you will be so pumped about your life that you will be attracting
women by your presence alone.

At one point she tries to break the tension during a long silence by pleading with me to “say
something”. She can’t deal with the tension. I win.

The next time you want to talk to a woman take a second to write down the exact reason why you
didn’t do it. Be very descriptive.
For example, you see a cute girl you want to approach but your mind says “she looks like a bitch”.
Now go over and talk to her. Oh wow, she is visiting from Texas and is really sweet. Interesting.
Make sure later on you write down three things.
1. What you wanted to do (approach a woman)
2. Why you didn’t want to do it (she looked mean)
3. What actually happened when you did it (she was really nice)
Pay special attention to the difference between what you initially thought and what actually
happened.

After a few days you will see that the “aloof bitches” were actually hot girls on vacation from Brazil
that just didn’t speak English. The girl that “has to be with one of these guys” really just met them. The
two girls “who probably just want to talk to each other” were excited to meet you.
I have done this exercise and it’s really fun. You become shocked at how far off you are on your
prejudgements of people.